Men can walk tall justifying their otherwise wayward behaviour but none of them is clever. So often we have heard about men who bed their housemaids to relieve themselves possibly because they are denied that opportunity by their wives.

But as the experts have explained, the solution is communication between husband and wife. Soliciting sex from helpless housemaids is a temporary solution that might result into permanent problems because men do not want to close their zippers.

In the absence of authoritative data, we might not have a clear picture of the gravity of the problem yet we cannot deny this does not happen in many homes.

We hear women who are independent look down upon their husbands. But one thing that must be remembered is that sex should not be used as a weapon by wives to punish their husbands. Sex is a gift from God and it must be enjoyed.